Future Thinking
It's ok to do what you want and to be who you want to be. There is no rulebook that says you need to be a certain thing by a certain age. Your definition of success does not need to be someone else's definition of success. Whether you're putting pressure on yourself or on to others, you need to stop and ask yourself where the pressure is coming from.
100 years ago expectations were different for everyone (good, bad, indifferent). People simply had less choices. The world has drastically changed in the last 20 years and it will continue to change rapidly. Boundaries are being pushed. Rules are being broken. New norms are being created. Don't you think it's time to change the way you think about your future?